Frequently asked Questions about Hotel Notel :

What are the rules?
  • NO ! We are 18+ Only at every event - The Hotel is often found in the "Red Light District" of burns, ONLY open to adults 18+ *Still : We rely on Civic Responsibility & the Personal Responsibility of Parents!

  • Generally, yes ! Check State Laws & Event Specific Rules for your stay.

  • Yes! The Hotel Notel Lobby would love to have you , your sexy sets & ~ fabulous performances ~

  • There is always a room at Hotel Notel! We welcome artists, performers, educators, the experienced & the curious alike.

Can I join?

Contact Us ~ Join as a camper or collaborate on art, events & fundraisers

Can I Perform or DJ at Hotel Notel?
Is your camp family-friendly?
Can I play or be nude at Hotel Notel?
  • Hotel Notel is about Hospitality & is designed for growth & education Learn more about :

Playing in our Hotel Dungeon - Dungeon Safety & DMs - Camper Info

What, Who, When ? - Hotel Notel

What :

Hotel Notel is a collaborative art project embracing sexuality as creative human language.

We take inspiration from the fetish world & create a glamorous nightlife world designed to deconstruct shame through hospitality & artistry.

Who :

Hotel Notel's creator - Pinkie - was inspired to create a theme camp bringing twenty years of experience in nightlife & lifestyle events into the principles of Burning Man.

The Hotel came to life once Pinkie's inspiration collided with his partners art & passion for the fetish world. Their combine creative direction created something entirely new.

They debuted the Hotel at their home regional burn - Interfuse - in the Summer of 2024 with the help of two special friends - Goth lifestyle DJ Sarah, who has been to every Hotel Notel event since it's debut, & the incredible shibari artist/longtime burner - OZ

We got Hotel Notel on it's feet through the hard work of incredible creative friends.

One year later, the Hotel found it's most special friend & official head matinance-man, Leo. Veteran burner & longtime camp hero - Leo - is our Viking King co-lead & backbone of Hotel Notel.

Two Years & Nine Burns later, the Hotel family has grown to include some of the most incredible artists & unique individuals we've ever had the pleasure of knowing. We couldn't be more grateful for everyone who visits & stays with the Hotel.

When :

We post upcoming Hotel Notel events on social media & on the Upcoming Events page

As of 2026 - Hotel Notel attends three regional burns, LoveBurn in February, Interfuse in May, & Lakes of Fire in July. We help host our home regional burn fundraiser - Ignition - in January.

The spirit of Hotel Notel is active 365 days a year. We take Hotel Notel where it can inspire & create community.

All year long our artists are working different events, & often Hotel Notel's leads throw fundraisers, festivals, takeovers & house parties to support our art & create community. We would love to see you there ! Check For Events

Contact Us to Bring Hotel Notel to Your Event

Camper Info

Campers are asked to collaborate & interact with the Hotel where it brings them joy !

While camping with us, take on roles in the Hotel you're passionate about & collaborate on creating new ones ! We are here to support the art & expression of our friends.

Camp Meetings :

Camp Zoom meetings are hosted every two weeks leading up to Hotel Notel events.

Zoom links - Will be posted on the Camp Discord the day of the meeting.

Meetings allow us to prep, collaborate, & plan for each event. They are opportunities for campers to ask questions, propose new ideas, & source any resources they need for a successful burn !

Attending all camp meetings is recommended but not mandatory.

We would love to see our campers in at least one Zoom meeting pre-event.

We would LOVE to see ALL campers at the final meeting - to ensure everyone camping with Hotel Notel has what they need & is prepared for an incredible stay!

Camp Volunteer Shifts :

General Campers -

  • Campers attending an event from gate open to gate close are asked to donate four hours of volunteer time.

  • This includes two hours during an event & two hours at the end of the event to help with camp breakdown.

  • Two hour Hotel Notel event shift can include -

    • DMing - Bartending - Lobby DJing

    • Joining Room Service "turn down" for the Hotel Dungeon

    • Assisting Kitchen Team with meal prep & clean up

Build Team & WAPS -

  • Hotel Notel as a camp provides limited WAPs for Build Team before events.

Event Leads -

  • Event Lead Roles are open to all

  • Event Leads take on special roles with creative control over event areas, like -

    • Hotel Sound - Performances - Dungeon - Kitchen & Meal Plans

  • Many roles are available & we are open to new roles that allow our campers to shine ! Learn More :


As of 2026, Hotel Notel wants to honor the campers that take on extra roles for the hotel. On top of whatever extra support & benefits we can provide our leads, we want to present every event lead with their own personal wax play saint candle & saint spot on our Hotel Notel wax play alter.

Flapjacks & Flogging -

  • Flapjacks & Flogging is our one all hands on deck camp event !

  • We want every Hotel Notel camper to be a part of our opening party continental breakfast extravaganza - regardless of if they're a General Camper, Part of Build Team, or an Event Lead

  • We have many stations for campers to be a part of & we always welcome new station ideas. We want every camper to express themselves & HAVE FUN!

For more info, check out our Flapjacks & Flogging page.

Camp Dues :

To help us support campers & bring Hotel events to life, we ask campers for dues.

Camp dues vary by event - With the varying costs of event location & demands. Spending of Camp Dues is 100% transparent - Laid out in the Camp Spreadsheet.

We welcome collaboration & critique of the Hotel Notel budget & spending !

Dues typically cover - Gas, propane, maintenance, & the fabulous Hotel meal plan. Dues do not cover - Hotel expansion, art, decor or infrastructure.

Camp Work Days :

Before any event - Build days & packing days will be hosted at the Hotel Notel home base in Kansas City. Campers are not required to attend but are welcome.

Our space is open to our friends & fellow artists for collaboration & support building their projects as well as Hotel Notel projects.

We host on a property that allows us to spread out & get creative !

With Us to plan a work day!

Playing in the Hotel Dungeon

Rules are posted at the Hotel entrance, Hotel lobby, & inside the Hotel dungeon.

Our rules :

  • Encourage guests to give scenes & active play space.

  • Ask guests to refrain from taking photos without a DM or Hotel Night Manager

  • Alert Voyers to locate our designated Voyer Areas

    • Only active scenes are allowed inside the main dungeon to keep equipment open & give guests adequate personal space

Posted rules also remind our Hotel Guests about consent aware play etiquette.

Dungeon Monitors (DMs) are often available in our dungeon during open play hours

DMs are identified by glowing red vests

Hotel Notel DMs & are here to go over dungeon rules, provide demos, keep the dungeon active & create a positive guest experiences

Our dungeon is designed to be welcoming, high energy, & inviting for all. Our space relies on the values of Civic Responsibility, Communal Effort & Radical Self Reliance to work.

It's important to note that Hotel DMs are NOT relied on for dungeon safety.

  • Our DMs, when active, can be a first point of contact in helping individuals get to Camp Leads, Rangers, Medics, or Sanctuary.

  • If no DMs are in our dungeon - please locate a hotel camper (likely found at the hotel bar, kitchen or backstage)

  • Our Hotel Campers can point out the Night Management Team - our experienced Hotel Notel campers & burners able to address Hotel or dungeon related issues.

Dungeon Safety & DMs

18+ Concerns

Our Hotel Notel creator & lead, Pinkie, is the Red Light Zhar of our home burn & (along with his partner Angel) has several combine decades of experience in 18+ spaces & events.

We are always striving to collaborate with the community on consent, safety, & the concerns of families attending events where Hotel Notel is present.

We care about all, prioritize hospitality & welcome every discussion.

Frequently Asked Questions
What are the rules?
  • NO ! We are 18+ Only & often in the "Red Light District" of burns. *Note : At events we rely on Civic Responsibility & the Personal Responsibility of Parents!

  • Generally, Yes! But please check State Laws & Event Specific Rules !

  • Yes! The Hotel Notel Lobby would love to have you , your sexy sets & ~ fabulous performances ~

  • There is always a room at Hotel Notel! We welcome artists, performers, educators, the experienced & the curious alike.

Can I join?
Can I Perform/DJ at Hotel Notel?
Is your camp family-friendly?
Can I play or be nude at Hotel Notel?
  • Hotel Notel is about Hospitality & is designed for growth & education

Learn more about :

Hotel Notel

Join as a camper or collaborate on art, events & fundraisers

Playing in the Hotel Dungeon

Dungeon Safety & DMs

Camper Info, Dues & Expectations

What, Who, When ? ~ Hotel Notel ~

What :

Hotel Notel is a collaborative art project embracing sexuality as creative human language.

We take inspiration from the fetish world & create a glamorous nightlife world that deconstructs shame through

~ Hospitality & Artistry ~

Who :

Hotel Notel's creator, Pinkie, was inspired to create a theme camp for Burning Man that would bring twenty years of experience in nightlife & lifestyle events into the events principles :

Pinkie's inspiration collided with his partners passion for the fetish world. Their art & creative direction combined to created something entirely new.

The Hotel was debuted at Interfuse, their home regional burn, the Summer of 2024.

It came to life with the help of two friends - Goth lifestyle DJ Sarah, attending every Hotel Notel event since it's debut, & her veteran burner partner, ranger, incredible shibari artist - OZ

Hotel Notel got on it's feet through the hard work & talent of incredible friends.

One year after its debut, the Hotel found its most special friend in our official head Hotel matinance-man - Leo.

He is our viking king co-lead, a longtime burner, camp hero & backbone of Hotel Notel.

When :

We post our upcoming Hotel Notel events on social media & on Upcoming Events

Hotel Notel currently attends three Regional Burns :

We also help host Ignition in January - the fundraiser for Hotel Notel's home regional burn.

&

The spirit of Hotel Notel is always alive, 365 days a year !

All year long, our Hotel leads & friends are working different artists events. Often Hotel Notel will throw fundraisers, takeovers & house parties supporting our artists & creative community.

~ We would love to see you there ! ~

Check For Events

We take Hotel Notel where it can inspire & create community.

Contact Us to Bring Hotel Notel to Your Event

Radical Inclusion

Gifting

Decommodification

Radical Self-Reliance

Radical Self-Expression

Communal Effort

Civic Responsibility

Leaving No Trace

Participation

Immediacy

Two Years & Nine Burns Later : The Hotel Notel family has grown to include the most incredible artists, wildly unique individuals, & kindest friends we've ever had the pleasure of knowing.

We couldn't be more grateful for everyone who supports & stays with Hotel Notel

LoveBurn in February

Interfuse in May

&

Lakes of Fire in July

Camper Info

We ask campers to collaborate with the Hotel where it will bring them the most joy!

Camp Meetings :

Zoom meetings for our campers are hosted every two weeks leading up to Hotel Notel events.

Zoom links are posted on our event Discord day of.

Meetings allow us to prep, collaborate, & plan. Campers can use them to ask questions, propose ideas, & source resources they need for a successful burn !

Attending all camp meetings is recommended but not mandatory.

We love to see our campers in at least one meeting pre-event.

&

We would LOVE to see ALL campers attend the final meeting pre-event, which will ensure everyone has a chance to prepare for their stay with Hotel Notel

Roles at Camp :

While camping with us - fill the roles you're most passionate about, or collaborate with us on creating new ones!

Campers are asked to contribute 4 hours of time total while camping with us at an event.

Learn More

Camp Dues :

To support camp & bring Hotel Notel events to life, we ask our campers for camp dues.

Camp dues vary by event with varying event costs & event locations. Everything about our spending when it comes to an event is 100% transparent - Laid out in the Camp Spreadsheet.

We welcome collaboration & critique when it comes to Hotel Notel's camp budget !

What Camp Dues will typically cover :

Gas, propane, bar, maintenance, & the fabulous meal plan.

Dues do not cover any Hotel Notel expansion, art, decor or infrastructure.

Camp Work Days

Before any event - Hotel Notel will host build days & one pack up day at the Hotel home base in Kansas City.

Campers are not required to attend but are welcome.

Our space is open to our campers, friends & fellow artists. Camp build days are meant for creative collaboration. We help our campers with building their projects as well as Hotel Notel's.

The Hotel Home Base allows us to spread out & get creative !

Connect With Us to plan a work day.

  • Hours for general campers will include one two hour shift mid-event & two hours of camp breakdown at the end of the event.

  • Request your shift pre-event during our camp meetings

  • Shifts could be -

    • DM

    • Bartender

    • Lobby DJ

    • Room Service

    • Kitchen Team

General Campers

Campers attending from gate open to gate close

Build Team & WAPs

As a camp, Hotel Notel has a limited amount of WAPs for event early access.

As of 2026 - Hotel Notel will be honoring the campers taking on lead roles.

At the end of an event, leads become Hotel Saints - Presented with their own wax-play Saint Candle & a spot on the Hotel Alter

  • Build team will be made up of Hotel campers arriving on site early to help with initial camp set-up.

  • Anyone can volunteer to join the Build Team

  • Build team will have first access to WAPs

  • As of 2026, Hotel Notel will be showing our Build Team extra appreciation with special swag & more.

Event Leads

Campers who take on special roles with Hotel Notel at Events

  • Taking on a lead role will count as volunteer hours

  • Lead roles are open to all campers

  • Many roles are available & the Hotel is always open to creating new roles that allow campers to take on creative control & shine !

  • Event Lead Roles -

    • Dungeon Lead

    • Sound Lead

    • Bar Lead

    • Kitchen Lead

    • Stage Lead

  • We want every Hotel camper to be a part of our opening continental breakfast extravaganza party.

  • This will include general campers, build team, & event leads alike

  • Flapjacks & Flogging has many stations for campers to be a part of & we welcome camper ideas for new stations.

  • We want every Hotel camper to express themselves & HAVE FUN!

  • Current Stations -

    • Twat Waffles

    • Strap-on-Sausages

    • Cock-cuterie

    • Cotton Candy Cunninglingus

Flapjacks & Flogging

Our one all hands on deck Hotel Notel camp event !

For event info, check out

Flapjacks & Flogging

Playing in the Hotel Dungeon

  • Encourage guests to give scenes & active play space.

  • Ask guests to refrain from taking photos without a DM or Hotel Night Manager

  • Alert Voyers to locate our designated Voyer Areas

    • Only active scenes are allowed inside the main dungeon to keep equipment open & give guests adequate personal space

Rules are posted at the Hotel entrance, Hotel lobby, & inside the Hotel dungeon.

Our Rules :

Our rules also remind the Hotel Guests about consent aware play etiquette.

Hotel Notel DM's (Dungeon Monitors) are

Safety & DMs

  • Are here to go over rules, give demos, keep the dungeon active & create positive guest experiences

  • Can be identified by red LED vests

  • Are often available during Hotel open play hours

  • Will not always be available !

  • Can be the first point of contact for dungeon issues

  • Can help individuals get to Hotel Camp Leads, Rangers, Medics, or Sanctuary.

  • Again, they are NOT the main resources for dungeon safety

~ Dungeon Concierge ~

Our DM's

  • Is 18+ only (applies to entire Hotel)

  • Is designed to be high energy, welcoming, & open to everyone

  • Relies on Civic Responsibility, Communal Effort & Participation to function safely

Our Dungeon

Important Note : Hotel Notel DMs are NOT relied on for dungeon safety !

Important Note : Hotel Notel DMs are NOT relied on for dungeon safety !

~ For Help ~

if no DMs are in our Dungeon :

Find a Hotel camper to point out our Hotel Notel Night Management

(experienced campers always on site)

18+ Concerns

Hotel Notel

We prioritize hospitality & we welcome every discussion

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